Sunday, September 22, 2013

Lately have you notice that things have been a bit rocky between you and your partner; well rocky may be an understatement! More like a TREMULOUS ROLLER COASTER RIDE FROM HELL!  and all forms of communication has stopped. The dead silence is so sickening, to the point you find yourself psycho texting and calling and to no avail - SILENCE!.....So you begin to  endlessly stalk his/her Facebook, Instagram, and other social platforms to find answers to your partner  sudden change of behavior, distant and/or disappearing act! All of your exhausting efforts have left you in such a craze as if a love spell as been cast upon you!
PAUSE.....
Worrying is too much on the brain, and on the heart. 

If anything you should replay the past, find the lesson, make peace with it and then be done!

When things don't work out, it's not your job to obsess over it; it's your job to find everything within yourself to accept change and move forward. 

The heart and the soul don't love to sit in grief or feel pain, the heart wants you to love yourself and be happy again.

At times we get mixed up with the heart and the mind, the mind tries to trick you and disguise itself as the heart and make you feel pity, feel victimize, feel as if you need to wallow in sadness.

STOP!

That is not the heart! The heart is the best part of you! if you can hear it; it will tell you your worth. It will tell you that you can move forward, it will tell you- you're beautiful and a better, and a more fulfilling love is in store for you.The heart gives you space to remember who you are outside of a relationship and build the faith that you need in this lifetime.
"Breaking The Spell", is by far is the most powerful guide in the world to getting over someone. This book is not merely different from other books that tackle the same subject but it’s
not even comparable to them.

The book will make the worst breakup ever become a 
simple state that you can recover from in a few weeks if
not days.  what use to take you months for to get 

over someone now  will take you a couple of days.


Monday, May 13, 2013

PERSONAL BRANDING

A personal brand is a authentic depiction of who you are, what skills you have developed, and what value you can bring to the table. Whether you are just getting started in your business or career your personal brand should evoke a positive emotional response we people hear your name.

Your personal brand must be based on the following:
  • An honest assessment of your skills and talents
  • Strong emotional response
  • Relationship interaction
One great why you can conduct and honest assessment of yourself is by asking your colleagues, clients, friends, and family members for their thoughts. By doing so you are able to further assess your strengths and weaknesses.

"Research has shown that once people, particularly your older crowd, get an impression of a brand, the impression tends to stick. Thus, if your personal brand triggers a negative emotional response, it will be difficult to alter it. Therefore, it is important to clearly establish who you are, what you are good at, and what you like to do in order to stand above your competition.

You must stay consistent and disciplined fueling your integrity, passion and desire by embracing new developments and technology in your chosen field. Hence, so people know what to expect when dealing with you.

A great personal brand starts with believing in YOU! 

You must understand your true self...even if it means sometimes you may be criticized or rejected because you express your own values and needs. Your opinion and values will not always be the same as those of your peers, colleagues, friends or families.  As long as you are open and honest about your true self you will know what you excel at and what weaknesses needs to be fine tuned.